Part of being awesomer is learning to love yourself. If you believe you are worthy of love, then others will feed off that belief and believe it too.
The problem is that loving yourself is harder than it sounds. Just when it seems as though we are feeling wonderful and full of love for ourselves, something happens to make us question this love.
Why does this happen? Well, the truth is it’s the law of polarity at work. I could tell you what the law of polarity is, but I don’t think that would help. Also, I would have to charge you.
Instead, I will share with you some valuable tips for sparking those feelings of self-love, which in turn will increase your potential for awesomeness.
The following are just a few of the ways you can build a loving and nurturing relationship with yourself:
-Motivate yourself with daily affirmations.
-Buy yourself flowers for no reason.
-Cover your room with little notes taped everywhere saying “I love you, love, me (aka. you).”
-Wear your favorite cologne or perfume one day, just to remind yourself of you.
-Make up a pet name for yourself.
-Take yourself out on a date, just the one of you.
-Whisper sweet nothings into a tape recorder. Put the recorder to your ear. Now play it.
-Constantly remind yourself how much you love and miss you.
-Write sexy emails to yourself. Sign them “BURT” (Be Undressed and Ready Tonight!)
-Surprise yourself by answering the door wearing nothing but a smile.
-Make little finger foods and feed them to yourself one by one.
-Have a fondue. Use chocolate sauce, strawberries and whipped cream. Once you’ve finished eating, cover your body with the leftovers.
-Take a hot bath with yourself. After, rub yourself down with lotion.
Remember, loving ourselves isn’t a one time event. It’s an ongoing process.
Have you ever worn nothing but a smile? If so, I’d love to hear about it.